Mother/daughter co-authors Lan Cao and Harlan Margaret Van Cao. Lan teamed up with her Harlan, to write Family in Six Tones: A Refugee Mother, an American Daughter, a memoir of their complicated relationship. Alternating chapter by chapter, they give us valuable perspective on culture, bullying, and coming of age, and the powerful bonds of family. Millie Garfield is here! At 95 years young, Millie is one of the Internet's oldest bloggers, according to The Ageless Project. She’s also Steve Garfield’s mom! We love her voice and her sense of humor, both of which are on full display on her blog.